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memorial day engagement surprise

may 25, 2008

I first met Meredith at a karaoke party in the basement of Remote Lounge in March of 2004. I was there was some friends singing karaoke, and she was there celebrating her 24th birthday. We were introduced by our mutual friend, Catrinel. (Here's the very first picture I ever took of Meredith from that night!). I thought Meredith was really cute, but Catrinel told me she had a boyfriend.

Three months later, I ran into Meredith again at Sarah Lewitinn's Memorial Day BBQ at 3A. We started chatting and when she told me that she'd recently broken up with the guy she'd been dating, I slyly suggested that if she "ever wanted to go out sometime, solely for the purpose of making her ex-boyfriend know that she had already moved on" that I was totally available to help. Meredith took me up on it and the rest is history.

Sarah's Memorial Day BBQ in 2008 was the four year anniversary of us getting together, and I figured that it would be the perfect place for me to surprise Meredith and propose! I invited a bunch of our mutual friends to the party to witness the surprise!

meredith silverman
On Monday, we took it easy around the house. Meredith was busy doing some arts and crafts while I did my best to pretend that I didn't have a ring in my pocket and that I wasn't nervous about proposing at a party in front of all of our friends in just a few hours.   tags:meredith crafts paint


Craft-master Meredith.   tags:crafts flower

, ellen hart, jeet, quinn asteak, sarah lewitinn
We started walking over to Sarah's house at 5:30. I secretly texted the party and told them that we were on the way and that anyone who was there from out of town should go up on to the roof and hide for a while so that Meredith wouldn't get tipped off to the fact that something was up!   tags:catrinel ellen hart jb jeet quinn sarah shruti apt 3a

, brian battjer, ellen hart
Hahaha. Here's me arriving at the party and making a "Meredith has no idea that I'm about to propose" face while Cat gives me a purple nurple.   tags:catrinel ellen hart me apt 3a tit squeeze


Sarah had put together a huge feast....   tags:bbq food

sarah lewitinn
...and was also GRILLING INDOORS wtih some big, crazy George Foreman grill that you plug into the wall.   tags:sarah apt 3a bbq grill

, amanda berkowitz, clayton cubitt siege
Indoor grilling in June in a NYC-sized apartment = 1,000 degrees Farenheit. Meredith was like "It's so hot in here, let's go up on to the roof" and everyone had to keep making up excuses about why we were staying in the roasting-hot apartment.   tags:amanda scott ward siege apt 3a sweaty

, antony ellis, karen +1
Every time someone would catch my eye and they were sure Meredith wasn't looking, I'd get cheered on. Hahaha.   tags:karen posh tony sarah h sweaty

, clayton cubitt siege, meredith silverman
Meredith, Siege and Piper (and Vince in the background).   tags:meredith piper siege vince

, meredith silverman
After successfully getting settled in to the party without Meredith suspecting anything, Catrinel initiated the next stage of the plan and got Meredith to sit down on the very same couch that she'd been sitting on four years ago when we decided to go on our first date! (Cat was like "It's really hot - come sit here on the couch with me and I can fan us!" Smooooooth.)   tags:catrinel meredith apt 3a couch fan sweaty

brian battjer
With Meredith in place on the couch and still not suspecting anything, it was time for THE PROPOSAL. Here's me doing my best to pretend I'm not nervous while a couple people sneaked out of the party and rounded up all the guest hiding up on the roof.   tags:me nervous proposal

, brian battjer, meredith silverman
While Meredith sat on the couch, all of the roof guests quietly sneaked into the apartment but stayed by the door out of Meredith's sight. With everyone in place, I took a deep breath and tried to pretend that I was just casually joining her on the couch. As soon as I sat down next to her, the noisy party instantly went completely silent and Meredith noticed that everyone at the entire party was looking at the two of us and aiming cameras at us. Before she could ask what was happening, I asked "Remember four years ago when you asked me out on this couch?"    tags:me meredith piper apt 3a couch proposal us

brian battjer, meredith silverman
Before she could answer, I got down on knee and popped the big one! She was so surprised that at first she didn't say anything. She just kept looking around totally surprised trying to process what was happening.   tags:me meredith apt 3a best couch proposal surprise us

brian battjer, meredith silverman
Hahaha.   tags:me meredith apt 3a couch proposal us

brian battjer, meredith silverman
As the surprise wore off, she just started laughing and laughing. Her first words back to me after my proposal were inspired by Bret Michaels and VH1's awesomely terrible Rock of Love. She asked, "Will you stay in this house and continue to rock my world?" Hahaha.    tags:me meredith apt 3a couch laugh proposal us

brian battjer, meredith silverman
Yay!   tags:me meredith apt 3a kiss proposal us

, amanda berkowitz, david fateman, ellen hart, jeet, sarah lewitinn
Here's the everyone at the party cheering. Awwww.   tags:amanda ellen hart fatty jeet nick sarah sarah h scott ward apt 3a best proposal yell

brian battjer, meredith silverman
Great success!   tags:me meredith apt 3a proposal us

, antony ellis, clayton cubitt siege, karen +1, katie james, lawrence lewitinn, meredith silverman
Here's Meredith realizing that there's a whole bunch of her friends from out of town hiding in the corner!   tags:brother lawrence karen katie meredith posh tony siege vince apt 3a point proposal


Here's the whole thing captured on video courtesy of Siege. (My favorite part is after all 15 seconds of kissing and the room yelling of the word "woo," it gets quiet for a second and Sarah goes "WAIT, DID SHE SAY YES?")   tags:me meredith apt 3a proposal video

, brian battjer, david fateman, david kreitman, ellen hart, murdo mcgrath
Here's my taking a photo of...   tags:audrey david kreitman ellen hart fatty me murdo nick sandy sarah h shruti proposal

antony ellis, karen +1, meredith silverman
...Meredith's over-sized engagement ring. I had to custom order it in her size (because she has teeny tiny fingers) but the custom ring didn't arrive in time so I had to propose with a ring that only fit on Meredith's thumb! Hahaha.   tags:karen meredith posh tony proposal ring thumbs up

, david fateman, david kreitman, ellen hart, murdo mcgrath
More cheering and smiles. I love this photo so much!   tags:audrey david kreitman ellen hart fatty murdo nick sandy sarah h shruti proposal

, brian battjer, meredith silverman
You're the man now, dog. Hahaha.   tags:me meredith sarah h point us


Thanks so much to everyone who came and helped keep it a surprise!

brian battjer, meredith silverman
Happy!   tags:me meredith laugh sweaty us

david kreitman, meredith silverman
Time for congratulations! David and Meredith.   tags:david kreitman meredith beer proposal

brian battjer, ellen hart
Ellen and me.   tags:ellen hart me kiss

meredith silverman, murdo mcgrath
Murdo was one of the out of town guests who hid out and surprised Meredith!   tags:meredith murdo beer

amanda berkowitz, clayton cubitt siege, katie james
Amanda, KT and Siege.   tags:amanda katie siege

, murdo mcgrath
Post-proposal party in full-effect.   tags:catrinel murdo sarah h apt 3a crowd

jeet
Gurj was rocking a novelty candy bra. You know, just the usual.   tags:jeet bra fan

jeet, meredith silverman
Meredith out of nowhere: CANDY BRA NOM NOM NOM! Hahaha. I love Gurj's expression in this photo so much. It's totally due to the fact that Meredith is FULL ON cupping her entire right boob and it makes me LOL every time I look at it.    tags:jeet meredith best bite tit squeeze uncomfortable

, murdo mcgrath
Byron, Murdo & Sandy went to college with Meredith and came to the party to surprise her!   tags:byron murdo sandy


Audrey and Adam!   tags:adam audrey

jeet
Here's a picture of Gurj eating indoor-grilled chicken in sunglasses and a candy-bra. NBD.   tags:jeet best bite sunglasses wtf

antony ellis, josh madden, lisa graham
No longer having a reason to stay in the sweltering apartment, we decided to take the party up to the roof. Posh Tony, Josh and Lisa!   tags:josh m lisa graham posh tony

, murdo mcgrath
Wesleyan crew!   tags:byron murdo sandy sarah h roof


Skyline north.   tags:nyc roof skyline

, clayton cubitt siege, david fateman, katie james
Fatty, Sarah, Cat, Siege and KT.   tags:catrinel fatty katie sarah h siege roof

, amanda berkowitz, lawrence lewitinn
Scott, Amanda and Brother Lawrence.   tags:amanda brother lawrence scott ward roof

brian battjer, meredith silverman
The Soon-to-be Battjers! (I love this pic so much).   tags:me meredith best nyc roof skyline sunglasses us


Skyline south at sunset!   tags:nyc roof skyline sunset

, amanda berkowitz, clayton cubitt siege, david fateman, katie james
A little after 7pm, we thanked Sarah for her hospitality and then all piled into Sarah's elevator to head out.   tags:amanda byron fatty katie sandy scott ward siege bike elevator

, brian battjer, meredith silverman
And even more people squeezed in on the other side!   tags:catrinel me meredith sarah h elevator


A bunch of people headed home, but Catrinel, Sarah...   tags:catrinel sarah h street walking

, amanda berkowitz
...Scott and Amanda...   tags:amanda scott ward street walking


...decided to walk to our apartment to play some Rock Band! I love how as soon as Sarah realized I was taking pics of her and Catrinel walking she...   tags:catrinel sarah h street walking


...decided to strike a sexy little glam pose. Yowsa!   tags:catrinel sarah h street walking

, amanda berkowitz
Straight down to business!   tags:amanda catrinel sarah h scott ward rockband stuytown apt videogames

, amanda berkowitz
Hahaha. Killing it. I love this pic.   tags:amanda catrinel sarah h scott ward rockband stuytown apt videogames

, amanda berkowitz, clayton cubitt siege, katie james, meredith silverman
Then a couple songs later, Meredith, KT and Siege joined the party and we all nerded out together. Just cuz you're getting married doesn't mean you gotta grow up or anything! Thanks to everyone for keeping the surprise a secret and for coming out to help me surprise Meredith! It meant so much to have so many people we love be there to share that huge moment in our lives!    tags:amanda catrinel katie meredith sarah h scott ward siege rockband stuytown apt videogames

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